To start
with the fact that the discussion is really urgent and important. Nowadays
teenagers grow up very quickly under the influence of a large number of
information as beneficial and harmful. They want to be independent not only in
their clothing and in the choice of friends but also in other aspects of life.
At this point, the opinions of their friends is more important for them than
the opinion of the parents.
First, teenagers spend much more time with peers
than with their parents and they want to assert themselves, to be independent,
or at least to seem so.
Secondly, the conflict of generations has always been
and always will be. It is a natural phenomenon, but most parents behave
incorrectly. They do not want to understand that children grow up and they may
have their own point of view.
Permanent conflicts at home are the reason that
teenagers go to the friends who understand them better than parents.
On the other
hand, of course, it's wrong. The most important people in our fate are our
parents. They will never betray and won't hurt you, even if they not always
accept your point of view.
In conclusion, I would like to say that adults need
to be smarter and more delicate than their children. A compromise is needed.
And most importantly, parents have to trust their children and don't care of
them stupidly, then they will see that parents are their friends not enemies.
I believe that family is the main
thing in our life. That's why parents must learn how to manage any situation,
and the child will respond with love and understanding.