Daily routine.
You need to eat in a clearly allotted time. In children who are brought up in disadvantaged conditions, poorly formed self-regulation and self-control. Better to give them time to rest, work, and power, than to resent and blame for the failure to comply with the rules. At the same time, it is difficult for children to observe a clear time frame, so the overly expressive response of the mother to lateness will contribute to the use of children "lies in the name of saving themselves and mother."
Family responsibility.
Household chores should be distributed among all family members. Often almost all the duties performed by the mother complains all the time about how it "all just sit and drive". The sacrificial position of the mother in the performance of domestic duties is associated with the inability of family members to agree on the distribution of responsibilities. It can fuel children's desire for dependency.
Boundary rule.
All doors in the house must always be open. The child should feel that there is trust in the family and you can enter any room without warning. At the same time, he needs to have his own space in the house. The rule of observance of borders makes it possible to obtain the necessary autonomy, creates a sense of responsibility in children, promotes their maturation. It is very important that in the foster family, especially in the first two years, do not create conditions for distrust and provoking theft from the child. It is desirable to hide the most valuable things, not to throw money around the house, to know exactly how much they are stored in the house