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Your private life is your personal record. Before anybody don't justify!It isn't important whether you live in a civil marriage with the ex-boyfriend or the ex-girlfriend and you stopping in numbers of various country hotels, or you live with parents though to you it is already far for 20 - remember: you aren't obliged to anybody to give the account on how you live, where do you live and with whom you live. On that it and private life that only you knew about it and only authorized representatives to whom you consider it necessary to tell about it.
You shouldn't anybody explain anything concerning the life priorities.Each of us has views on the fact that can make you and your relatives happy. As all of us have principles, values, dreams and aspirations, it will be logical to assume that each of us will have also different life priorities. You aren't obliged to tell someone, about what main objective you have chosen for yourself in life. This choice concerns only you one and it is more of nobody.
You shouldn't give approval on everything that is told by others.You always have the right to tell "no" if you don't see any viscous reasons to answer "yes". Actually the most successful people are those which I have managed to tell "no" to all that they didn't have in priorities. Show kindness and gratitude to people around, but be never afraid to refuse what takes away you far from the main vital objectives politely.
You shouldn't bother on the fact that people think of your appearance.
Whatever you were: harmonious, chubby, high, low, beautiful or ugly, you have to explain to nobody why you are such. You are you. Your appearance is your personal record and you shouldn't anybody explain anything. Remember: appearance doesn't determine your personal value.